Tuesday, January 31, 2012

tuesdays with Morrie

It's not often that you come across a book that touches you to the very core of your self. The one book which forces you to think and act upon later. I am really glad to say that today, after a long time, I read one such book - 'tuesdays with Morrie' by Mitch Albom. The first such book was 'The Monk who sold his Ferrari' by Robin Sharma. This post is not a comprehensive review of that book per se, but I wanted to share my thoughts on it and some other things too.


To start off, this book is the dialog between a teacher and a student. What's so special or interesting about this dialog is its timing. It happens during the last days in the life of the teacher. This might remind us of similar works by Randy Pausch and may be even Steve Jobs. But what is truly captivating about this book is the point of focus, the central theme around which the whole dialog proceeds. Given the timing of the dialog, as you might have guessed it, this whole dialog revolves around the concept of death. Sounds dramatic, right? 


If you have heard of the Stanford Commencement speech by Steve Jobs in 2005, Steve Jobs talks about death as one of his stories. He also mentions all his realizations related to death as a result of his close encounter with it. Now imagine the realizations of a person who knows he is going to die in a few months. This book talks about all such little nuggets of wisdom in very simple and elegant words. If you are wondering about the topics he chose to talk about, don't push yourself much, they are the most fundamental concepts we all struggle to find answers to - regrets, money, forgiveness, love, family, emotions, etc.


As you read the book further, a kind of feeling starts slowly in your mind which basically says 'hey, I've come across this stuff before in our scriptures'. Yes, interestingly, all of the points of wisdom which Morrie talks in the book are present in our scriptures, vedas, upanishads etc. and I myself have heard/read about them a lot of times. The point is, the words in this book, for some reason went deep into me than anything else earlier. Eventually, I got this question - why is the wisdom in our books not so simple? If the whole point of having wisdom is to enlighten others and help them make their lives better, why not present it in a simple way?A lot of texts on spirituality and wisdom that I have come across are either too abstract or too complicated. May be I have not come across a correct book yet, or may be I am being too judgmental. If someone has some books in mind, please let me know, I'll be really thankful to you.


Speaking of thanks, I express my heartfelt thanks to my friend Ramya for pointing me to this book.


Good day and happy reading!


Some more sources of such wisdom:
Tiny Buddha
Zen Habits

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Never too late

It's already Jan 15th, half way into the first month of a new year, and I have still not told myself the story of the last year. Yes, for some unknown reason, I have gotten into this habit of blogging about the past year on new years eve. This time it was different. I did not blog about the last year. Or, let's say I couldn't. Not that the thought did not pass by mind; but I was caught up in some other thoughts, about the future, stemmed from some things in the last year. There were things that I had to change, and I was trying to figure out how.


Thinking about the last year, 2011, has nothing particularly interesting per se, but it gave me experiences which were exciting and not so. All I remember now are just a few glimpses. Time really flies by, doesn't it?


As every new year, 2011 did bring with it new avenues for growth and development. On a professional front, I worked on something which went into a product which people would use, which would make their lives better. No, this is not something from a Philips ad saying to make lives better. I've always wanted to work on things which would impact people's lives directly, and I could live up to my beliefs this time. It was an extremely interesting period; I learned a lot about work and the professional world. The smile and pride I saw in my father's eyes the day I showed my work is something that I would never forget. And I met some really nice people I would be friends with for a really long time. I had my first international trip, and am really thankful to my team lead for giving me this opportunity.


On a personal front, some things did not work out as expected, and I felt really bad for that. Hope things get better.


So, what am I expecting this year? Call it gut feel or hunch, I believe this year's going to bring some change in my life. Or, may be I should work for that. Oh yeah, my new year resolution: "accept life as it comes, just be ready".